Rajiv Sharma

If I would have been writing on the same day things were happening, emotions and words would have been different. whatever be the situation time is big healer and you always forget small details with time. Was thinking of writing this for long but when things were happening you don't get even time to think leave aside writing something. here I am going into past and remembering Ridit first few months at home. Lot of doubts were in mind when we brought Ridit home for first time. How we would manage things, would we be able to avoid infection, what precautions to take, how we tell Mom, Dad not to touch him, how we are going to avoid friends at home, how to take him to doctors visit as hospital is very far.. we had heard with great power comes great responsibility, I guess opposite is also true with greater responsibility you get power to fulfill it .. Daily routine wake up in the morning, prepare milk for Ridit, write down feed quantity in diary, measure temp, write down in d...

Here comes the day which I feel is the most happiest day of someone'e life .. and you guessed right. But in my our case, I had gone through the same emotions 2 weeks back so I thought the feeling would be same. But this time it was  worrying and tensed than the last time (when doctor didn't operate  and wife came out of  OT without being operated)  and had some unusual unrest.. May be I  was worried more about the coming days than to live in present and believe me in that situation you cant live in present. After waiting for more than hour finally doctor called and passed  the NEWS. not sure I am like that or not but I was still processing it and there was a surprise also.. First it was BOY and second Birth weight was way less than expected.   Here onwards I could understand why physicists are  doing so much research on Nano technologies even if we have bigger units to measure Here onwards ,, I was not sure that life would take such a route...

Its amazing feeling when you go back and read your blogs. You could feel the rush of emotions you were going through when it was written. So how come I haven't  written about the best thing happened in our life.  Well to answer this question is simple .. You dont get time for urself when God showers you the best gift. Its been almost 4 more months and its crazy how things went and still going on ... Well it started with sudden development of hospitalization of wife and suddenly you realize you have just one  night to make  up your mind for the beautiful moment you waited for years.. But instead of excitement, Tension and uncertainty is what you are occupied with. You dont know what is waiting for you tomorrow and you start filling with all negative emotions.. not sure how to support wife or to urself..  Night seems too long and never ending waiting outside ICU. You just dont want to talk to anyone.. You are not ready to accept that it can happen t...

Sometime things happen which makes you realize that you can not control the things how hard you try.I know these are strong words and you may feel I am not that old to talk to such things ;)  or am I ???  dont know but small incident made  you realize this. On our( Me and Wifey )  way to Mall , I suddenly realized there are no brakes in Car.. Luckily speed was not more than 10 and  we were just about to stop the car for inspection by security at entrance. Front car was 20 meters away...Some how managed to drive few more meters in that condition and parked in the Mall. I was very calm but suddenly my mind was occupied with so many negative thoughts like what would happen if we were driving in speed . Or instead of coming directly to Season's mall which is just 100 meters form home we would have planned to go outside ( which we were discussing  when started).. During all those  thoughts i shouted on Toyota on call person ,asked him to leave his rel...

So its more than 3 months now. 3 months and 3 days to be exact when cough started. Its still going on though the intensity and frequency is pretty low and it is not impacting day to day life. The one biggest thing i realized again is how much technology is impacting our day to day life. In this case it was in good sense but there are areas where it is eating into our lifes in very bad way esp our children( will write separate blog on it ..its out of scope here ;)  Anyways I am thankful to technology and esp to google without which doctors might have experimented on me during last 3 months and might have given hell lot of medicines. My study of "whoppoing cough" on google prevented all this as i stopped taking medicines after 1 month. Also it gave me clear picture of how long I have to suffer and in turn made me patient enough. In china  this cough is called 100 days cough so I am still within 100 days ;) another thins i realized how easily we forget time. I was writi...

Must be wondering why I returned to blogging after so many years. Well sometimes  you just dont realize where life is taking you until you get a punch. That punch came in the form of "Cough". Sounds simple and foolish  ?? wait till you read my blog !!1 More than 6 weeks back cough and cold started.. As usual waited few days.. As you predicted it didnt go.Doctor inside made me took "No cold" medicines which i normally dont take. Cough took turns and changed into cough fits..total dry. It was the first indication something worse is coming. first antibiotic course started.... No effect .. Doctor change. another Antibiotic and allegy medicines.... No effect Another doctor changes. Antibiotics changes... No effect oops Last doctor was more sympathetic so no antibiotics this time. but Antacid and allery medicines continued. During week 3rd and fourth , My super computer was working day and night to find the source of allery started with the beautiful plans i...

Life goes too fast. Can't imagine how fast time is sweeping. One year in Amdocs n it seems joined yesterday . Almost 4 years in IT industry n still no Bank balance :(

Ofcourse Me Yaar...

Writing after such a long time. Just because evrytime had the same frustration, same felings of not learning anything , not gaining anything.. so there was nothing to write. Then 2 months back , resigned and joined new company. Well changed city, new ppl , new environment.Things moved litle bit .. Obviously didnt get 100 % what I expected but yes I am satisfied that i made the right decision.. Will add later on .. gtg as its 1 o clock in the morning and that too in office so felling tired. Not feeling like writting more..

This place has become something special for me.. coz my last crush is in Pune and my gonna be Bhabhi was also there. Had booked my Tickets in sleeper class but had to change it to Airtickets.. Thanks to Navy C( My friend Navdeep for whom this trip had been organised for) coz he couldn't travel in Train after all he was in US for past 2 years.. He came on thursday, we had dinner at Moti Mahal ,Shipra and then we took Spice Jet flight at around 7 in the morning that is friday. Air hostess's were really beatiful and that too in Red Skirt and White Shirt (hey stop imagining ). Served us biscuit ( did mistake n only had one piece) and water thats it. Reached Pune at 9 10 and then hunted for a good hotel. Man ,Pune is very expensive and good hotels were full. Two hrs of dedicated search, few phone calls lead us to a Panchratan where we got one deluxe A/C room in 1900 bucks + 300 extra person( complementry brkfast too). Had some sleep and finally Archik's call woke me up . he reac...

Came back from jammu n within 2 days planned to go to hyderabad.Left on friday via Airdeccan flight . Was a new experince while flying as fying crew were collecting money for whatever they were serving :) I thought not to buy anything but when Air hostes asked me wid such a politeness I just couldnt refuse so i took mixed juice that cost me 25 bucks ;) that should have been for 15 only. Reached hyd at arounf 8 50.Went to my sis's home. Had Dinner ouside at "Tabla". Next few days went for shopping , mostly household items ( Just shifted to new place so had to arange evrything), Did lot of Bakar, Saw Hussain Sagar lake, watched Mangal Pandey .Sunday Did some shopping for bhai as he would be leaving for US within few days.At evening had dinner at bhayia's guest house. Food was really great. First time in my life I was travelling in rajdhani. As usual no girl in my compartment.. so preferred sleep. Sevice was good. When reached Bhopal, remembered college days when we used...

Planned to go along with my brother but didnt get leave so left on tuesday evening. Was travelling in 3 Ac and dreams of meeting some nice girl during journey again shattered :( Never mind, reached home did Bakar wid parents n brother and then went to market to buy cooler. Came back and then went to furniture shop wid dear Mom. Though didn't buy anything but got some idea abt rates. Next day , Seema n her parenst came. Bhayia, sudhanshu and me went to Station to receive them. Dropped them to hotel and then went to Gole market . There we had Naan- Chole and Kulch-Chole. You wont believe that this is the hottest( cool boys n gals roam around ) market of jammu and i dont remember going there once before even though I had lived there till my 12 std. Then again went to hotel, took the guests to our home. Had lunch, and in the evening did some photo shoot in Bahu -Fort ( Big park near temple). Next day was rakhi n Seema's birthday. I stayed at hotel wid Bhabhi and arranged for C...

Hey guys n gals ( i know no gals would read this).. I am again joining Gym today. hope this time would continue for long. Bought 2 Adidas Tshirts n 1 adidas trouser yesterday.. wish me good luck yaar :)

On Satudar( 23rd july) I was eagerly waiting for one of my best friend. He was going to bangalore. Left for Station early morning. While returning back wid him forgot the way back( not a single time in 2 yrs I returned back through the same way I took while going to New Delhi station) n somehow reached CP.. Two plicemen stopped us and charged us 150( my friend wasn't wearing a Halmet) too didnt give us any receipt. After 10 min again we are charged 100 rs but this time we got a receipt :) Then happy happy reached home n guess what did we find.. Door was locked and key were inside( interlock)... Friends Zindabad .. So thought of bhartiya,I woke him up.. Then he bought milk, water,dahi etc for us.. My friend wasn't sure of his Air tickects so called few number , arranged few things.. went to Delhi station again to pichk up her Cousin and then to Airport to drop them. Enjoyed 1-2 hrs and then was returning back.. thought evryhthing settled except locked door btu nope that was not ...

Hurray First time posting and heading doesn't include "Trip" These doesn't have anything to do on weekends but still didnt get time to create a post. Contradictory Statement :) Well on 22nd july.I got a call from my few college friends that they are coming to celebrtae one of our friends birthday at my house. U know am a nice guy so couldn't say 'NO' I didnt know that my 'Yes' would cost me too much. First of all i had to arrange the Cake( 120 bugs). PPl came at 9 30 . I thought they would leave after few hrs but i was wrong . They planned to stay at our home ( dont know the reason though) and I had to arrange for their food as well n to my bad luck I had to pay the whole amt guess how much? 850 bugs guys... for Pizaa... I thought evryone would share but sab ke sab saale ( saalian) Kamine.. So In a single day I lost 1000 Rs.Whenever i think of saving money these things happen.. God is Great...

Was chatting with Shahi and he suggested my blog name should be Travelogue as my postings except first one are related to trips only. So I am here again with Bangalore and Pune trip.Dont worry wont be that long.. Took Kingfisher flight and reached bangalore within 2 n half hrs.. Didnt feel whether i reached some new place. Weather was great.. May be clouds start weeping on finding me( Khushi ke aansoo saalo) . Met brother and then Saturday met Other friends. Played pool , watched War of Worlds, chatted with friends. Sunday we went to Sheem Sundaram , a place 150 km from city. Its a water fall.tried our best to reach bottom of the fall but coud't. So felt its beauty from few meters away. Main aim was to spend some time with friends so did it.While returning took bath in some river, saw temples.. and had typical south indian food. Monday, again went to pool and watched Sarkar , really good movie worth watching. From tuesday onwards, Spent days time with Sis( Hospital, bangalore roads...

Went to home last to last week. Hey dont worry it wont be that long as my previous post :) Just three days at home. All the time were at home only. Didnt go anywhere as it was too hot outside and wanted to be wid Parents most of the time. Sona, khana , peena(milk, paani bhai...) thats it.. and chat with Dad, Mom.. Mera bhanjha bahut tej ho gaya hai.. will post his photograph later.. i didn't buy him anything this time. due to my laziness.. Dad is very excited abt brother's marriage(hopefully next year) I told him that ki mere liye bhi dhoondna shuru kar do... After all these things take time yaar.. Then I thought abt Pandey.. mera tho ek hi bada bhai hai... Bechare ke 2 hain.. Pata nahi kab number aayega uska ;)

Writting blog after so many days. Not bcoz of workload but only coz I am very very lazy person. Saw comments from Shahi that I am not updating my blog.. so Shahi ji ab Lambi si story pado.. I dont have good writting skills as you have so you may get bored but sorry i dont have any other option... so here I start... Last week I went to Gorakhpur( Shahi's home town) to attend Yash's brother's Mariage. I left on monday and reached there on tuesday.I got the chance to get involve in all the rituals performed.I thought imarriage would be a 1 or 2 day affair but I was really surprised that it takes around 4 days to complete all the stuff. First time I watched all the functions except TILAk. The marriage started on Friday with Tilak (I dont know what it is as I was not there ). Then on tuedays ie day bfr marriage all the relatives( ladies and girls only) were putting haldi on Bhayia( not just one time but 5 times ) and in between bhayia couldn't take bath. he was completely tu...

I was reading Aditya's blog for the past few weeks and posting comments there and then thought to have my own blog.So here I am with my first blog. Well , Thanks to Ashish coz I am waiting for him to go for shopping and so got time to write this stuff. Bhai sahab ko Cabin bag aur Trouser lena hai.. Onsite jaa raha hai.. We were supposed to go at 7 30 and its already 7 36 so I am expecting a call anytime from him. Today is monday , weekends are very boring now a days as Rupesh is in US and dear Aditya ji goes home every weekend and the worst part is my phone bill is shooting day by day due to this very reason. Just called Ashish , hmm he is busy with work. It seems every one is busy right now ofcourse except me ;) So going home ...